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August 20, 2010

Online Relationships Work From Free Dating Services

Filed under: dating, online, single — Tags: contact, date, dating, free, looking, meet, online, people, person, register, relationships, services, single, singles, site, sites, websites — admin @ 10:25 am

Single people usually gather at the bars to seek dates. This is the old traditional way to find dates. In the new way, single men seeking women at a free dating service because it is easy and costless. In fact, free online dating services have been emerged that help to create many online relationships. If you are a new single person who does not know anything about online dating services, then you should read some articles to understand about the service. Generally speaking, you create your personal ad by introducing about yourself. You can post your photo if you want to. In your description of your profile, you can write the likes and dislikes. Online dating services have other singles like you who post their personals dating ads. Either you or other singles can contact with each other when a match is found.

Many online relationships are generated by first met at these free online dating websites. Single women looking for men register their profiles at these sites. After a single woman found her date, she leaves the site. By this time, she can communicate with her date through phone, email, or other means. This rule applies the same for a single man. Sometimes, you contact with a single person and do not get a reply back, you need to understand that this one is seeing someone right now. This single lady may not want to delete her profile yet because she may come back to the dating site looking new single men, if the current relationship does not work out.

Free dating services are great because many online marriages created in recent years. It is so popular that most of famous websites have personal ads, including Yahoo, MSN, AOL, and others. There are single people everywhere. Singles keep looking for their dream mates at these dating sites. So, you will see new faces of singles who register at these free dating services every day. Online dating site is a fun place to seek dates. You can find a date online at the comfort of your computer, in the living room, in the bedroom, and every where in your house. For just a few clicks of your computer mouse, thousands of singles showing up in front of you like a movie.

Many singles worry whether online relationships last long? Statistics show that a compatible relationship that you meet online always lasts for long, compare with a date you meet at the bars or nightclubs. The main reason is online singles look carefully at the others’ personal ads before making decision to contact them. A person you meet at the bar is usually happened by the sexual attract between two single people. That’s why free online dating websites create long term relationships and marriages.

Meeting an online date is easy and simple. All you have to do is to register at these free online dating sites and then start dating. Your other dream mate is waiting online to meet you so taking action right now is a must.

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August 19, 2010

Four Basics To Keep In Mind

Filed under: dating, relationship, time — Tags: date, dating, learn, person, pressure, relationship, spouse, time, trust — admin @ 8:41 pm

Dating—that is, scheduling time to spend with a person of the opposite sex to get to know them–can be a wonderful time in a person’s life. It challenges us to grow as individuals and to learn more about others. It can also lead us to grow deeper in faith. Here are four basic points to keep in mind when dating.

KNOW YOUR INTENTIONS

Are you looking at dating as only a means of finding a future spouse?

While it could potentially be the end to the means of dating, finding a future spouse should not be the main intention of dating. That puts too much pressure on each individual date and the person whom you date.

Dating is a time to learn more about yourself through a relationship with others. It is a time to see what qualities you need and like in others. When not limiting yourself to a certain type you will discover new and valuable aspects of each person.

Perhaps you have learned that in relationships you act a certain way that does not really reflect you are or who you want to be. In this case, one can use dating as way to become more genuine in relation to the opposite sex. It will show what you need to “give” in the relationship and what you can “take” from the relationship, too!

STICK TO YOUR BOUNDARIES

Communication is an important factor in any relationship but especially a dating one. One must be honest about one’s own intentions. All relationships need boundaries. A boundary for a practicing Catholic is chastity, refraining from sexual activity before marriage. Doing this helps build intimacy within the relationship without having sex.

Being up front about one’s beliefs will weed out dates that are not worth your time from those that are. One must not only say things up front but back them up with actions. Do not send mixed messages; be clear and concise in your actions. Date in open public areas where there is no pressure to be physically intimate. If you are on a date where alcohol is served drink in moderation to avoid temptation.

HAVE FUN

Dating is fun if you enter into it with the mentality of enjoying the present moment. When you start to date someone, take the time to get to know them. Rushing into a serious relationship can add too much pressure. Just enjoy the time you have with that person in the present moment; tomorrow will take care of itself. Some fun date ideas include museums, art galleries, bowling, mini golfing, movies, dinner, and rollercoaster parks.

TRUST IN GOD WHILE DATING

Dating is an opportunity from God to learn more about others through entering into a dating relationship with them. Trust that you are in a dating season of your life because God needs you to take the time and be present in dating. Trust that God is leading you always and pray that your dating be fruitful.

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March 29, 2010

Interpreting DIY Blind Dating Red Fags

Filed under: date, flags, woman — Tags: backseat, blind, call, claims, date, dating, door, general, killer, matter, meeting, online, person, personal, seem, serial, woman — admin @ 1:28 pm

Do-it-yourself (DIY) blind dating has become one of the most popular ways of meeting people via social networking. It is easy to set up a date over Facebook or Myspace, but the problem is that a woman on a blind date doesn’t really know who or what is going to show up when she actually meets the date. When a meeting finally occurs, the person may look “normal”, but once he starts talking it can be a completely different story.

After a few strike outs, optimism takes a backseat and a person just hopes the date she’d agreed to meet for coffee over Facebook is not some sort of serial killer. The days of grandma setting her granddaughter up with her pyromaniac next door neighbor are over, welcome to dating 2.0. Here are some red flags interpreted that will help weed out the freaks.

He Arrives to the Date Appearing Disheveled, Confused and Late

What’s the excuse for a man that is late, unkempt and looking like a wild-eyed serial killer? He is a serial killer, or a hobo, that’s what. Bonus points if he is wearing clothing with visible blood, puke, urine, dirt or is filthy in general. Get out of there as quickly as possible, and make sure he doesn’t follow.

He Uses the Terms “Leet”, “Alliance”, “Horde” or “Noob” In Casual Conversation

This is a sure sign of an online MMORPG (Massively-Multiplayer Online Role-Playing Game) player. Expect to take a backseat to raids, prepubescent boys using the handle “Macdaddyninjatroll”, and having a partner in general. In a worst-case-scenario, he blows all his money to on fake Warcraft (which he will call “WOW”) in-game gold to buy a mount for his Tauren Shaman. Unless playing an MMORPG is a personal hobby, this is not a guy worth dating.

He Lies About His Age

When a silver fox shows up instead of a 25 year-old man, there is a problem. No matter how hip or “with it” (he will use this term) he claims to be, just remember that he had to lie to get a date. This is never a good sign. Tell grandpa to troll the senior’s homes instead of Myspace.

He Calls His Mother “Mommy”

He is a mama’s boy. He will want meals cooked, laundry done, and sit on his butt until someone richer, hotter, or with a lower self esteem comes along.

He Talks About “Yilfing”

He’s a furry. Run! There is a subculture of anthropomorphism where people dress up like sports team mascots and animal costumes that would make the Easter Bunny at the mall cry. Call it a fetish, and don’t get involved.

He Eats With His Mouth Open

He is a slob and probably lives in grandma’s basement because mommy kicked them out. If he doesn’t have enough respect to uses general etiquette that says it all.

He Claims to be a Hipster, But It’s Just a Cover for Why He Doesn’t Have a Car or Job

This means he is possibly lazy, has a DUI and cannot legally drive, can’t afford McDonald’s and will crash on friends couches for as long as he can milk it, if given the chance.

He Has “Eager Beaver” Syndrome

He wants to move in by the end of the date. He is disgustingly complimentary and will do anything to please. He is desperate and has not been in a relationship for five years. Do not be fooled; his charm is dependent on hooking a woman. Once hooked, he will use crafty tactics to keep a woman, and call constantly. This kind of man is hard to shake off, so stay away.

He Insults the Waiter at the Restaurant

Two words: control freak. This is also called “It puts the lotion in the basket” syndrome. When he is not roid raging at the waiter, his woman will be the target. These men are often abusive and use fear and guilt into making their women complacent. Do not pass go with this one.

Stay Cautious and Look for Flags

DIY blind dating can expand man options past those of traditional dating, but it can also pave the way for freaks to get their foot in the door. No matter how nice a guy may seem online, an in-person meeting can determine if he is dating material.

Be aware and go with a gut instinct. If something doesn’t seem right or add up, go with it. Never give out any personal information, like an address, workplace, or school, and always arrange to meet at a neutral location. There are plenty of men out there, even if it seems like there aren’t. Time is the key. Date a variety of men and see what happens, and don’t settle.

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March 16, 2010

Big Dating Myths — And Surprising Truths

Filed under: myth, study, truth — Tags: according, being, date, feel, first, guys, myth, person, study, stuff, talk, truth, university, women — admin @ 7:34 pm

MYTH: When you’re prepping to go out on the prowl, put on a barely there outfit — men like women who show lots and lots of skin.

TRUTH: A new study published in the journal Behaviour found that, to reel in the boys, the ideal amount of flesh you should reveal is 40 percent. A crop top and mini crosses the line from seductive to skanky.

MYTH: If you’re into a guy, make the first move on him.

TRUTH: Smile at him, but then wait for him to come to you. A Northwestern University study discovered that the person who does the approaching usually ends up falling harder.

MYTH: While chatting him up on a date, focus on your shared interests.

TRUTH: Discussing stuff you have in common will make you feel connected. However, it’s also key to talk about interesting personal experiences and hobbies that are different from his. According to experts, being exposed to new and exciting things increases the chemical dopamine in our bodies, and that in turn builds interest and passion.

MYTH: Eat a low-calorie meal like veggies and salad when out with a guy in order to show that you’re attractive and take good care of yourself.

TRUTH: Despite a recent study from McMaster University in Canada that found women tend to do just that, most guys actually go for chicks who will eat a real meal in front of them, says Scott Kudia, author of If This Is Love, Why Am I Unhappy? Not that you should stuff your face, but men want to be with someone who will be herself around him. Nibbling at rabbit food reads as phony and guarded.

MYTH: The first thing that grabs guys’ attention is your eyes.

TRUTH: In a Cosmo and AskMen.com poll, 62 percent of guys notice a hot body. Only 27 percent are lured in by seductive eyes. (See myth #1 for a tip on how to show off your curves in the sexiest way.)

MYTH: It’s a good idea to “friend” a guy you’re dating, so that you can get to know each other better and feel closer.

TRUTH: A study published in CyberPsychology and Behavior found that being Facebook friends with the person you’re seeing increases relationship jealousy (ahem, like by clicking through pics of each other with your respective exes). It also leads to a sense of over familiarity that can doom a relationship, particularly in the early stages.

MYTH: Don’t talk about yourself too much on a date or you’ll seem narcissistic. Instead, ask him plenty of questions.

TRUTH: You should absolutely show sincere interest in him. But it’s equally essential to refer to yourself during conversation. Men go for women who use the word I frequently, according to a study published in Personal Relationships. Researchers surmise it’s because that term indicates self-disclosure, which promotes intimacy and closeness. It also reflects your independence — a huge turn-on.

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March 9, 2010

How to Read Body Language

Filed under: contact, interest, person — Tags: according, contact, cultures, dilation, gestures, hair, indicate, interest, interested, people, person, sign, signs, watch, winking, woman — admin @ 7:32 am

How to tell if a man is interested in a woman? Take a hint from his eye contact, facial expressions, arm and leg movement, and overall demeanor what he’s thinking and feeling. It’s not too difficult to know if the relationship is charmed or doomed. Just pay attention to the tiny details that will reveal everything.

Eye Contact and Pupil Dilation

In the U.S., people assume that eye contact is critical in knowing if someone is telling the truth or being deceitful. However, in some cultures, direct eye contact is a sign of disrespect. In cultures where eye contact is acceptable, eyes remaining on the other person’s face at least 80 percent of the time shows interest.

What is more important is pupil dilation, something people have no control over. If a person is interested in another person, the pupils are likely to dilate. To double check this, discuss something the person obviously has no interest in and watch his pupils constrict. Then bring up something that is one of his passions, and see what happens.

Blinking or Winking

When someone blinks, it often shows interest in what the other person is saying, according to Reading the Eyes, an article on Psychologist World’s website. Winking, however, varies according to culture. In the Western world, winking is a flirty gesture, while in other cultures, it is disrespectful.

Standing Close

Men and women who stand very close may be showing interest. Other clues to look for to indicate a positive awareness are:

More touching than normal
Leaning toward the other person
Frequent laughing and smiling
Sparkling and smiling eyes

Keep in mind that there may be some cultural differences, which may cause a different reading of the person’s intentions. Most Hispanics tend to have a smaller comfort zone than many Asian people, due to cultural upbringing. Be aware of the person’s background and watch for changes in his particular behavior. If he starts out standing arm’s length apart then moves closer while focusing on the conversation, this is a sign of interest.

Signs of a Woman’s Interest

Many women, knowingly or unknowingly, show their interest in a man by moving a certain way or making gestures that indicate that their senses are heightened. When she tosses her hair, strokes her hair or moves it away from her face and exposes her bare shoulders, she’s showing a desire for attention. Other things she may do are lick her lips, apply fresh lipstick or slowly nibble on something she’s eating.

Signs of a Man’s Interest

Men tend to watch a woman’s gestures, looking for a sign they’re interested. If they feel confident they won’t be rejected, they may lift an eyebrow and let it fall, according to Tracey Cox in 18 Body Language Clues That Say He’s Interested, an article on ivillage.com.

Other signs to watch for include:

His lips parting
His nostrils flaring
Trying to get the woman’s attention
Stroking his tie or smoothing his lapel
Messing up his hair or smoothing it back
Raised eyebrows while listening
Standing with hands on his hips
Playing with his buttons
Playing with his face while talking to the woman
Leaning toward the woman
Offering his coat or jacket

Although the physical signs aren’t foolproof, they may indicate the other person’s interest. Watch for eye contact, blinking, pupil dilation, how close the other person stands, preening and other body language gestures for a strong hint. If this is the first date, the best way to find out what the other person is thinking or feeling is to come right out and ask.

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