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August 20, 2010

Online Relationships Work From Free Dating Services

Single people usually gather at the bars to seek dates. This is the old traditional way to find dates. In the new way, single men seeking women at a free dating service because it is easy and costless. In fact, free online dating services have been emerged that help to create many online relationships. If you are a new single person who does not know anything about online dating services, then you should read some articles to understand about the service. Generally speaking, you create your personal ad by introducing about yourself. You can post your photo if you want to. In your description of your profile, you can write the likes and dislikes. Online dating services have other singles like you who post their personals dating ads. Either you or other singles can contact with each other when a match is found.

Many online relationships are generated by first met at these free online dating websites. Single women looking for men register their profiles at these sites. After a single woman found her date, she leaves the site. By this time, she can communicate with her date through phone, email, or other means. This rule applies the same for a single man. Sometimes, you contact with a single person and do not get a reply back, you need to understand that this one is seeing someone right now. This single lady may not want to delete her profile yet because she may come back to the dating site looking new single men, if the current relationship does not work out.

Free dating services are great because many online marriages created in recent years. It is so popular that most of famous websites have personal ads, including Yahoo, MSN, AOL, and others. There are single people everywhere. Singles keep looking for their dream mates at these dating sites. So, you will see new faces of singles who register at these free dating services every day. Online dating site is a fun place to seek dates. You can find a date online at the comfort of your computer, in the living room, in the bedroom, and every where in your house. For just a few clicks of your computer mouse, thousands of singles showing up in front of you like a movie.

Many singles worry whether online relationships last long? Statistics show that a compatible relationship that you meet online always lasts for long, compare with a date you meet at the bars or nightclubs. The main reason is online singles look carefully at the others’ personal ads before making decision to contact them. A person you meet at the bar is usually happened by the sexual attract between two single people. That’s why free online dating websites create long term relationships and marriages.

Meeting an online date is easy and simple. All you have to do is to register at these free online dating sites and then start dating. Your other dream mate is waiting online to meet you so taking action right now is a must.

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March 9, 2010

How to Read Body Language

How to tell if a man is interested in a woman? Take a hint from his eye contact, facial expressions, arm and leg movement, and overall demeanor what he’s thinking and feeling. It’s not too difficult to know if the relationship is charmed or doomed. Just pay attention to the tiny details that will reveal everything.

Eye Contact and Pupil Dilation

In the U.S., people assume that eye contact is critical in knowing if someone is telling the truth or being deceitful. However, in some cultures, direct eye contact is a sign of disrespect. In cultures where eye contact is acceptable, eyes remaining on the other person’s face at least 80 percent of the time shows interest.

What is more important is pupil dilation, something people have no control over. If a person is interested in another person, the pupils are likely to dilate. To double check this, discuss something the person obviously has no interest in and watch his pupils constrict. Then bring up something that is one of his passions, and see what happens.

Blinking or Winking

When someone blinks, it often shows interest in what the other person is saying, according to Reading the Eyes, an article on Psychologist World’s website. Winking, however, varies according to culture. In the Western world, winking is a flirty gesture, while in other cultures, it is disrespectful.

Standing Close

Men and women who stand very close may be showing interest. Other clues to look for to indicate a positive awareness are:

  • More touching than normal
  • Leaning toward the other person
  • Frequent laughing and smiling
  • Sparkling and smiling eyes

Keep in mind that there may be some cultural differences, which may cause a different reading of the person’s intentions. Most Hispanics tend to have a smaller comfort zone than many Asian people, due to cultural upbringing. Be aware of the person’s background and watch for changes in his particular behavior. If he starts out standing arm’s length apart then moves closer while focusing on the conversation, this is a sign of interest.

Signs of a Woman’s Interest

Many women, knowingly or unknowingly, show their interest in a man by moving a certain way or making gestures that indicate that their senses are heightened. When she tosses her hair, strokes her hair or moves it away from her face and exposes her bare shoulders, she’s showing a desire for attention. Other things she may do are lick her lips, apply fresh lipstick or slowly nibble on something she’s eating.

Signs of a Man’s Interest

Men tend to watch a woman’s gestures, looking for a sign they’re interested. If they feel confident they won’t be rejected, they may lift an eyebrow and let it fall, according to Tracey Cox in 18 Body Language Clues That Say He’s Interested, an article on ivillage.com.

Other signs to watch for include:

  • His lips parting
  • His nostrils flaring
  • Trying to get the woman’s attention
  • Stroking his tie or smoothing his lapel
  • Messing up his hair or smoothing it back
  • Raised eyebrows while listening
  • Standing with hands on his hips
  • Playing with his buttons
  • Playing with his face while talking to the woman
  • Leaning toward the woman
  • Offering his coat or jacket

Although the physical signs aren’t foolproof, they may indicate the other person’s interest. Watch for eye contact, blinking, pupil dilation, how close the other person stands, preening and other body language gestures for a strong hint. If this is the first date, the best way to find out what the other person is thinking or feeling is to come right out and ask.

March 3, 2010

Looking For Love? Keep An Open Mind

After her divorce five years ago, Lisa Hook re-entered the dating world, unsure of what she’d find.

As a single working mother, Hook said she didn’t have time for bars or singles clubs. So she concentrated her efforts on reputable online singles sites.

“I’m not going to say it wasn’t scary at first,” said Hook, 45, a Rochester mother of two who works in publishing. “Everything was so different. It’s challenging with all the new media.”

Christie Laabs, 26, of Sterling Heights said her age group has a different problem.

“When we go out, people don’t talk to each other at bars,” says Laabs, who does freelance production work for Comcast’s Dating on Demand video dating service. “It’s not like on TV, where someone comes up and starts talking to you. People tend to just hang out in their own groups.”

Hook said all this leaves her wishing for an easy solution.

“It would be wonderful to just lock eyes and meet someone at Dairy Queen,” she said. “But I know that’s not going to happen.”

She’s right, said Shirley Bavonese, a licensed marriage and family therapist, who with her husband, Joe, cofounded and directs Relationship Institute in Royal Oak and Livonia. In an age of e-mail and texts, many singles expect instant results, but that won’t happen.

“You have to put some work into it,” said Bavonese, adding people often put more time into choosing a car than a date.

“The bottom line is if your goal is a lifetime partner, it’s going to take a while to find that person. Quick date, take a class, join a social club, but … put yourself out there.”

With the advent of online dating, there are more choices than ever, said Bavonese, who met her husband of 15 years through singles ads. Yet, Hook said online dating can be a “double-edged sword” for busy people.

“It increases the dating pool a thousandfold,” Hook said. “On the other hand, the competition is also increased. Or you might click online, and then meet and the chemistry’s not there.”

Bavonese suggests if you meet someone interesting, get offline quickly so you can get to know the person.

“As soon as you can, shift to a phone call, then to a meeting in a public place,” said Bavonese, a master social worker who also runs singles workshops.

Another big mistake is being overly picky, Bavonese said. She suggests making a list of what you’re looking for in a partner, with the top three qualities being lifelong ones that are absolute.

“Tall, dark and handsome will change,” she said. “What doesn’t change is kind, compassionate and willing to negotiate.”

Bavonese said before you begin lamenting the lack of decent men or women, examine if you have what it takes for a long-term relationship.

“You only draw people to you as healthy emotionally as you are,” she says. “You need to be a full person and happy with who you are if you’re going to look for a partner to complement you.”

That means it’s not only OK to be single, but imperative to take time between relationships.

March 1, 2010

Dating A Hottie Makes You Seem Hotter

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By Charles Q. Choi

If you wish to be alluring, you might want to pair up with a hot partner. A good-looking significant other will cause other potential mates to find you more desirable, new research suggests.

The results held more for women than men, who tend to find attractive ladies desirable no matter who they are intimate with.

While the findings might be especially helpful to singles, the researchers are interested in learning about the mysterious rules of attraction that apply throughout the animal kingdom.

Animals often choose mates by imitating the choices of others. For instance, female guppies typically prefer brightly colored males, but will switch to favoring drab ones if they see other females mating with them. Copying others could prove beneficial, especially for inexperienced individuals that mimic more experienced ones. Still, little is known about what underlies this behavior in any species.

Human see, human do?

To see if humans copy others as well, scientists had 30 male and 30 female volunteers who all described themselves as straight rate how attractive they found photos of 36 men and 36 women. The volunteers were then shown 144 pictures of men and women paired together and asked how desirable they would find long-term relationships with members of the opposite sex in the pictures.

Both male and female volunteers rated people in the pictures as more desirable when they were paired next to attractive companions, the scientists found. By using cameras to track eye movements during the experiments, the researchers also saw that when volunteers spent more time looking at a potential mate’s unattractive partner, they were less interested in that mate.

“Even though people were only asked to evaluate the potential mate in each photograph, they all spent a significant amount of time looking at the mate’s partner,” said researcher Jessica Yorzinski, an evolutionary biologist at the University of California, Davis. “Women spent more time looking at the partners that they found attractive, while men shifted their gaze back and forth more.”

In addition, while male volunteers were interested in attractive women regardless of their partners, female volunteers were more skeptical of attractive men if they were paired with unappealing companions. This difference might perhaps be rooted in how women are often choosier about mates then men.

“The men might have just had a higher level of interest in all potential mates, and were less discriminating than females would be,” Yorzinski said.

Playing the field

One perhaps unpleasant consequence might be that if you are attractive, would-be adulterers might find your spouse more desirable as well. Still, “we actually told subjects that the couples they were viewing were no longer together,” Yorzinski said. “We didn’t want to create a study about competition with someone already in a relationship, which would involve all kinds of issues.”

As such, these findings could actually help singles.

“If the single person was previously seen with an attractive partner, this could still boost their chances,” Yorzinski noted. “If you were a woman and a previous boyfriend was attractive and some other guy saw you with him, maybe that would increase your chances if you broke up and were available again. Or perhaps if women doing online dating Web sites are pictured with attractive boyfriends, that would help them get more responses with their ads.”

The researchers noted they only focused on the physical attractiveness of the partner, and that future research could investigate whether other aspects, such as personality, might also influence desires. Scientists could also explore the underpinnings of this behavior in the brain to see how these decisions are made.

“Furthermore, we would like to track the gaze of people in a more naturalistic setting, not just in front of a computer screen, as they choose their mates, perhaps to see where people look when trying to pick up a date at a bar or when speed dating ,” Yorzinski added.

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February 28, 2010

Experts Give Advice On Entering The Online Dating World

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New to dating online? Or do you need some pointers on how to brush up your skill set? We asked the experts for some tips.

“It’s great when people put five or 10 pictures of themselves that depict things they love to do, pictures that communicate your personality. Writing a tome on your personality profile isn’t necessarily great. It’s about making it personal (with) adjectives, interests, descriptions and honesty.” — Bob Holden, EHarmony’s vice president of North American singles

“Keep profiles brief and specific. Leave the novel at home. Long, drawn-out profiles and sob stories don’t belong on an online dating site. Use a catchy screen name. For instance, I use PianoBaby and PaperbackWriter. It makes it easy for a man to approach me because they have something to say. Don’t put pictures of you and your pets or children. Don’t post party photos – a picture of a man and his buddy might confuse the person looking at the profile (who would wonder) who the right person is in the photo.” — Julie Spira, author of Cyber-DatingExpert.com and the book “The Perils of Cyber-Dating”

“You want your picture to be real. You want to be you. If you start on a date with a picture from 10 years ago and you’ve gained 10 pounds or if you have a lot less hair now, you’re starting on false assumptions. ” — Whitney Casey, Match.com’s relationship expert and author of the book “The Man Plan”

“You should always have one close-up to the face. I would recommend that people post three to five photographs on their profiles, but they could also run 50 or so through HotorNot.com (and let people vote) for which ones score the best.” — Mark Brooks, editor at Online-PersonalsWatch.com

“The more someone knows about you, the less they want to date you. If you write a massive essay, they’re going to find something to dislike about that person. If you don’t know something, everyone assumes you’re the same as them. Let everything else come out during the dates.” — Markus Frind, founder/CEO of PlentyofFish.com

“A lot of people fly through things really quickly. If you put a lot of general information in your profile, it’s hard to get a sense of who you are. Get a friend to help you write it because a lot of people are uncomfortable talking about themselves. Fundamentally, you should really be honest about who you are and what you’re looking for. That’s true anywhere you meet people.” — Greg Liberman, president and chief operating officer, Spark Networks, which owns JDate.com, BlackSingles.com, Spark.com, Kizmeet.com and other sites

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