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March 1, 2010

Dating A Hottie Makes You Seem Hotter

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By Charles Q. Choi

If you wish to be alluring, you might want to pair up with a hot partner. A good-looking significant other will cause other potential mates to find you more desirable, new research suggests.

The results held more for women than men, who tend to find attractive ladies desirable no matter who they are intimate with.

While the findings might be especially helpful to singles, the researchers are interested in learning about the mysterious rules of attraction that apply throughout the animal kingdom.

Animals often choose mates by imitating the choices of others. For instance, female guppies typically prefer brightly colored males, but will switch to favoring drab ones if they see other females mating with them. Copying others could prove beneficial, especially for inexperienced individuals that mimic more experienced ones. Still, little is known about what underlies this behavior in any species.

Human see, human do?

To see if humans copy others as well, scientists had 30 male and 30 female volunteers who all described themselves as straight rate how attractive they found photos of 36 men and 36 women. The volunteers were then shown 144 pictures of men and women paired together and asked how desirable they would find long-term relationships with members of the opposite sex in the pictures.

Both male and female volunteers rated people in the pictures as more desirable when they were paired next to attractive companions, the scientists found. By using cameras to track eye movements during the experiments, the researchers also saw that when volunteers spent more time looking at a potential mate’s unattractive partner, they were less interested in that mate.

“Even though people were only asked to evaluate the potential mate in each photograph, they all spent a significant amount of time looking at the mate’s partner,” said researcher Jessica Yorzinski, an evolutionary biologist at the University of California, Davis. “Women spent more time looking at the partners that they found attractive, while men shifted their gaze back and forth more.”

In addition, while male volunteers were interested in attractive women regardless of their partners, female volunteers were more skeptical of attractive men if they were paired with unappealing companions. This difference might perhaps be rooted in how women are often choosier about mates then men.

“The men might have just had a higher level of interest in all potential mates, and were less discriminating than females would be,” Yorzinski said.

Playing the field

One perhaps unpleasant consequence might be that if you are attractive, would-be adulterers might find your spouse more desirable as well. Still, “we actually told subjects that the couples they were viewing were no longer together,” Yorzinski said. “We didn’t want to create a study about competition with someone already in a relationship, which would involve all kinds of issues.”

As such, these findings could actually help singles.

“If the single person was previously seen with an attractive partner, this could still boost their chances,” Yorzinski noted. “If you were a woman and a previous boyfriend was attractive and some other guy saw you with him, maybe that would increase your chances if you broke up and were available again. Or perhaps if women doing online dating Web sites are pictured with attractive boyfriends, that would help them get more responses with their ads.”

The researchers noted they only focused on the physical attractiveness of the partner, and that future research could investigate whether other aspects, such as personality, might also influence desires. Scientists could also explore the underpinnings of this behavior in the brain to see how these decisions are made.

“Furthermore, we would like to track the gaze of people in a more naturalistic setting, not just in front of a computer screen, as they choose their mates, perhaps to see where people look when trying to pick up a date at a bar or when speed dating ,” Yorzinski added.

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February 22, 2010

How To Make Long-Term Relationships

Most of the online daters prefer to meet other people through free dating sites. These days the free dating sites have come up with value added services for the members. Hence, they are most popular among the teenagers who are new to the world of online dating and are learning the art of dating through free dating sites. Even the adults are using these services for they are free of cost and provide nearly equal facilities as the paid services. But the matter of consideration is whether the free dating sites are able to find a person who can develop long-term relation with you.

For the mature as well as teenage users of free dating sites, it is easy to start relationship with someone that they meet on the websites. But it is difficult for most of them to retain the relationship. Often, the teenagers are prone to build and break relationship faster in contrast to people who are mature enough to understand about relationship and who know how to nurture them. however, there are few tricks with which you can build relationships on free dating sites that will last long

Speak the Truth

In whichever article regarding dating tips and dating advice you read, they will advice you to provide factual information about you; it enhances your credibility in the cyberspace. Many people using free dating sites fake their identity and try to fool others. You should remember that these days, every one is making a Google search to know about other people. If you are pretending to be someone else, it may not take much time to find out the truth about you. Moreover, if you are seriously interested for a long term relationship, it is important that other should love you for what they are. There is no harm in being honest. But care should be taken not to reveal about all of you unless you have interacted with the person for a long time and you have faith on them.

Great Communication Skill

If you want response for your messages and emails, learn the art of breaking the ice on free dating sites. Many people lacking this are fail to get someone perfect for them even if they have other great qualities. Even after starting conversation, there are few techniques of communicating with people. Prior to sending message, try to spend some time on reading the profiles and in your message, mentions about what they like. It will definitely create positive impression. While chatting online, don’t talk too much about yourself, others may not be interested in it. Choose a topic both of you are interested in so that it can last for long. These conversations and messages are foundation of long term relationships on free dating sites.

Candid Discussion about Expectations

For a relation to last long, it is important that you should choose people who really meet your criteria. If you are serious about a long term relationship and looking for someone who shares the same interest on the free dating sites, you have to start a discussion about what you want in your souls mate and what the other person’s expectations are.

These tips will definitely help you get your love and soul mate for a long term relationship. So get the free dating sites a go, and start your online dating adventure today.

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