Looking for sex without commitment?

Find Hot People Blogs

September 17, 2011

Hugh Hefner Finds Monogamy Unnatural

Filed under: husband, life, love, married, people, relationship — Tags: , , , , , — admin @ 3:31 pm

Hugh Hefner doesn’t believe monogamy is “natural”.

The 85-year-old media mogul – who is famed for dating multiple women at the same time – is preparing to marry Crystal Harris later this month and insists he is a good husband who intends to remain faithful, though he feels it could be difficult.

He said: “I’m totally capable of being a good husband. I can be devoted, sensitive. Faithful? Yes. Absolutely.

“I do think that monogamy is possible. I just don’t think it’s the natural way of things.”

The Playboy founder – who has been married twice before – admits there is a “student-teacher” aspect to his relationship with 24-year-old Crystal but can’t imagine spending the rest of his life with anyone else.

He said: “I wasn’t planning on getting married again but I can’t imagine meeting anyone I’d get on better with. People make so much of the age gap, but we have a lot in common.

“Yes, there’s a certain student-teacher quality to our relationship, but surrounding myself with younger people helps keep me younger.”

Hugh also believes his reserved upbringing is responsible for his multiple relationships in later life.

He said: “I haven’t had therapy but yes, I do think it’s possible that a lack of love in the home transformed itself into a desire for romantic love later on.

“I was raised in a house where there weren’t a lot of hugs and my brother and I were both very aware of that.”

September 9, 2011

Would Confession Help Or Hurt Relationship?

Filed under: answer, dating, doubt, leave, life, marriage, question — Tags: , , , , , , — admin @ 10:32 pm

By Male Call

Q I’m engaged to be married to a fantastic guy, and have no reservations about our feelings for each other. I have only one problem, and it’s with me, not him. Once, while we were dating — we were “exclusive,” but marriage talk was nowhere near — I spent a drunken night making out with this guy. OK, it was more than making out, but we didn’t “go all the way.” Should I tell my fiance about this, in the interest of honesty going into the marriage, or should I leave it alone, because it won’t happen again, and I don’t want him to question my faithfulness?

Anonymous, obviously

A Wait just one sec — have you read this column before? Because this is the one where we deal with serious issues like whether it’s OK to shave a few pounds off your online dating profile (the answer is yes, but only if it’s less than, or equal, to 1.5 percent of your actual poundage), and whether men can wear white slacks before Memorial Day (the answer is men never wear white slacks, and also, FYI, they never say “slacks”).

So this is maybe not the greatest place to seek guidance on really, truly important emotional matters.

That said, there’s a first time for everything!

What was the question again?

Oh yeah, your sordid past.

It’s a lovely ideal to lay bare your soul to a prospective life-mate, but does that necessarily mean you have to come clean about that time you had a threesome in college, and one of the three was a life-size cardboard cutout of Halle Berry as Catwoman? No, it does not. Bygones.

But your situation is different, in that the indiscretion occurred while you were actually dating your possibly, maybe future husband. Awkward. There are two schools of thought here, as you alluded to:

1. Tell him all about it, in the interest of pre-marriage full disclosure.

Pro: The weight of guilt will immediately be lifted from your shoulders, and you’ll be entering your period of connubial bliss secret-free.

Con: That weight will immediately be shifted to his shoulders, in the form of the question: “If she did that, how can I leave her home alone during the four- to six-hour window in which the cable TV installer is supposed to arrive?” Plus, if you tell him about your drunken grappling session, be prepared to be questioned in extreme detail about exactly what happened, how often, in which car back seat and at what angles. A telestrator might be advisable.

2. Leave it alone and move on.

Pro: You’ve avoided planting seeds of doubt in BF’s head, doubt that would actually be misplaced because you’ve realized your thoughtless romp was nothing more than a last grasp at sexual freedom (or one too many Goldschlager shots?), and that you really are dedicated to the intended, and it really was a sordid, one-time deal, after which you felt more committed than ever to Mr. Lucky, are we right? We said, are we right?!?! Yes, good answer.

Con: Ha, there is no con, because the correct answer is No. 2.

September 1, 2011

5 Niche Dating Sites

Filed under: dating, friends, internet, life, looking, love, people, real, sites — Tags: , , , , , , , , — admin @ 12:33 pm

Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places? Try These Sites Instead

Looking for love in all the wrong places? Well, sorry, but chances are your results at any of the following five dating sites will be the same. On the other hand, they might be exactly what you are looking for.

These dating sites are specific destinations for some very specific seekers. General online dating doesn’t do enough to separate the chaff. But the vast use of the Internet also provides the solution: specialization.

Maybe you only like nerdy people, or criminals or … whatever. These days, there are sites out there for everyone. And we do mean everyone. That is, if you have Internet and room for one more in your life.

And if you do happen to fall into any of the camps these sites are built for, then you may just be set for the rest of your dating life.

Up For Dinner And A Rodeo?

Dad Gummit! Since dating is a numbers game, as are dating sites, all the focus is on the urban scene: the trendy restaurants, the night clubs, yada, yada. But what about the 20 percent of Americans who live rurally? Well, that’s where FarmersOnly.com come in.

This site is great because not only is there attention lacking in this arena, but who benefits more from the power of the Internet than those who live far apart?

As they say on this site, “If they didn’t marry their high school sweetheart, it was difficult to meet someone new.” Indeed. So, in response, this site was started to help those who love wide open spaces hook up.

It may be small compared to other sites, but that’s kind of the point. In fact, in that get-to-know-you style of country living, the site even shows the 100 couples married by meeting there.

Looking For Love Behind Bars?

OK, obviously, there’s the immediate reaction to this site: “What the … ?! Who would ever look for love from such a pool of candidates?”

But hold on there, skeptic. Think about WomenBehindBars.com from the women’s standpoint. It offers them the chance to reach out to someone willing to give a shot to the girl-trying-to-make-good. And you never know the kind of people on the outside who will reciprocate the desire. They say it takes all kinds, right?

They also say there’s someone for everyone. If that’s true, then kudos to this site for helping bring them together.

But be careful. Duh. The site disclaims its responsibility and doesn’t verify the validity of the profiles. So while she won’t be bashful about her criminal record, she may not be the 5-foot-8-inch, 120-pound blonde she says she is, either.

Do You Believe Love Is Blind?

Ever been sitting at home with nothing to do? Of course you have — your friends are all busy or whatever. Well, how’s this for an idea? Use the connectivity of the Internet to reach out and hang with someone new.

Just log on, see if anyone else is free, set up a time, and you’re off! Your lonely night just got company.

CrazyBlindDate.com is less about looking for someone to love and more about looking for something to do.

And let’s face it. Blind dates the old fashioned way haven’t historically been that successful. (What do your friends know, anyway, setting you up with that person? Geeesh!) So remove that degree of separation and go completely in the dark with this site. Certainly, if you like meeting new people this could be a ball.

Are You More Interested In A Beautiful Mind?

Like the rural folk, the geeks out there may feel unrepresented in the online dating world. So this idea seems like a no-brainer (haha, very punny). And this is especially so considering the web was created, and is run, by folks from the geekdom.

Gk2gk.com (geek to geek) is one geeky dating portal. And it looks like a few nerdy turtles are coming out of their shells!

The site purports to be the fastest growing dating site on the web. That’s pretty cool, ’cause the world needs the nerds getting together and having super-kids that can create ever-cool technologies.

So, while mainstream dating sites are full of profile shots that try to impress, rather than be real, feel free to be yourselves and join in on the action.

Was Charles Darwin The Ultimate Wingman?

Charles Darwin theorized about the evolution of species. DarwinDating.com demands the most “highly evolved” of the human species — well, as far as looks go anyway.

The members themselves vote on who’s worthy of staying in the pool of pretty faces. So it also provides a great lesson in Darwin’s theory of natural selection. Neato. But naturally, with the superficiality comes brutal honesty. So evolve some thick skin.

In real life, selection of a partner is much more than picking a face, but the site is proud to at least clear up this one factor. The rest of the journey is up to you, Casanova. Oh that’s right, there’s the dating part, as well. It’s not all just the fun of getting to rate the other members.

So get courting. And that goes for the farmers, blind daters, geeks and inmate seekers as well.

November 24, 2010

Dating After Fifty

Filed under: dating, partner, people — Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , — admin @ 7:14 am

Dating after fifty is a concept that is gradually catching up with people. Although, it might seem a little strange at the beginning, but as the saying goes there is no age for loving and one can fall in love all over again even after the fall of youth. However, it comes with a new set of challenges and excitements that needs to be dealt with. Both men and women can move out in search of partners even after the age of 50. But, when you are looking to date at this age, there are certain things that should be kept in mind. Remember, your body is not the same as it used to be, your mentality, thought processes and responsibilities have also changed with time.

So, if you are in search of a partner and willing to date after fifty, here are some handy tips.

The first and foremost task is to take good care of yourself. Keeping fit is very essential as this will make you feel more vibrant, providing you with a new zeal for life. Getting in shape is another task that becomes very important once you are willing to date after fifty.

To find like minded people, you can opt to join several community services or other voluntary organizations where people from different walks of life would gather. The expanded social circle would help you to meet new people, share thoughts and ideas, discuss various issues and spend a good time.

If you love music or dancing, nothing can be better than clubs where you can indulge in these activities. You can always find your dating partner in this setting and spend an absolutely amazing time.

The internet is another place where you can find a dating partner easily even after fifty. No matter what your requirement is, dating sites can be an excellent way to find the perfect partner. Be honest when you are in search of your date. Provide proper descriptions about the kind of person you are.

Finally when you do go out on your first date after fifty, keep it light and casual. Talk about things that interest both of you. You can also mention your kids, if you want to. However, do not completely dwell on them for the entire evening. Just mention them and go on to other subjects that seem to be interesting for both of you.

Staying informed about current affairs, sports or news can be an added advantage. This would help you to carry on conversation on diverse topics. Don’t let boredom step into your dating, so always make room for something exciting.

It is better if you do not mention about your ex-partner, whether it is a husband, wife or a dating partner. Everybody has drawbacks and at this point in time, when you are a responsible and mature person, people would not want to hear about your failed or unhappy relations.

So, if you are single and ready to mingle after 50, look out for opportunities to find the perfect partner around you.

Speed Dating Conseils

October 13, 2010

Five Important Things to Consider About Dating

Filed under: advic, date, dating, find, girls, guys — Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , — admin @ 11:03 am

Everyone does it. Not everyone loves it. Whether you enjoy dating or find it stressful and horrible, you know that if you are ever going to find the one person who can stop your dating life forever, you have to do it. Gentlemen, you just have to date girls if you are ever going to find the perfect one for you. So, here is some good advice for you.

Extraordinary dating can be broken down into the five most important things about dating girls.They are:

Girls are not guys. They do not think it is fun to make noises by placing their hands under their armpits and acting like a winged creature. Even if they are drunk, they don’t like this. Save this type of behavior for guy’s night.

Girls are not guys. They do not think it is cool to brag about your previous relationship conquests. They do not want to know about the ditzy blonde who had nothing to say but had the most amazing rack ever created. Nor do they think it is great to have their guy greeted by every woman in the place. Take your date to an another place just to be on the safe side and never, never, never mention your ex-girlfriend.

Girls are not guys. They do not like to see you show up at their door in your inferior old jeans with a cheap five-buck pizza in hand. Trust me on this one. Maybe later – way later, like after the kids become teenagers – it will be okay for this kind of thing to happen. But for now, please, guys: take a shower, put on something nice like khakis and a pullover shirt, and have flowers in hand instead of greasy fast food.

Girls are not guys. They do not love it when their date pulls out buy-one-get-one-free coupons at the restaurant cash register. There is nothing wrong with a bargain, especially in these tough economic times, but use those freebies when you go out with your mom (who will love your thriftiness) or your best buddy (who wouldn’t notice or care how you paid). Don’t make your date think that she is not worth full price.

Girls are not guys. They do not find burping and farting contests hilariously interesting and pleasing. Who can come up with most-silent-but-most-deadly one without any prior warning is nothing to be proud of, according to the female half of the population. Neither is it way cool to be able to belch out the melody to “The Star-Spangled Banner.” Again, save it for football night with the frat brothers.

Remembering the five most important things to remember about dating girls will take you farther than anything else when it comes to having a great time on your dates. The five most important things to remember about dating girls will also allow you to get more than one date with the same lady. There are lots of people who will offer you lots of advice about dating, and even some who will simply say, “Be yourself.”

That is not terrible advice, but trust me, if being yourself includes any of the forbidden actions in the five most important things to remember when dating girls list, don’t be yourself. Be better. Remember these five most essential things about dating girls and have a better dating life.

« Newer PostsOlder Posts »

The wildest live webcams
Real sex just a click away
Hook up with the hottest men!
Languages: English | Español | Français | Deutsch | Italiano