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How to tell if a man is interested in a woman? Take a hint from his eye contact, facial expressions, arm and leg movement, and overall demeanor what he’s thinking and feeling. It’s not too difficult to know if the relationship is charmed or doomed. Just pay attention to the tiny details that will reveal everything.

Eye Contact and Pupil Dilation

In the U.S., people assume that eye contact is critical in knowing if someone is telling the truth or being deceitful. However, in some cultures, direct eye contact is a sign of disrespect. In cultures where eye contact is acceptable, eyes remaining on the other person’s face at least 80 percent of the time shows interest.

What is more important is pupil dilation, something people have no control over. If a person is interested in another person, the pupils are likely to dilate. To double check this, discuss something the person obviously has no interest in and watch his pupils constrict. Then bring up something that is one of his passions, and see what happens.

Blinking or Winking

When someone blinks, it often shows interest in what the other person is saying, according to Reading the Eyes, an article on Psychologist World’s website. Winking, however, varies according to culture. In the Western world, winking is a flirty gesture, while in other cultures, it is disrespectful.

Standing Close

Men and women who stand very close may be showing interest. Other clues to look for to indicate a positive awareness are:

• More touching than normal
• Leaning toward the other person
• Frequent laughing and smiling
• Sparkling and smiling eyes

Keep in mind that there may be some cultural differences, which may cause a different reading of the person’s intentions. Most Hispanics tend to have a smaller comfort zone than many Asian people, due to cultural upbringing. Be aware of the person’s background and watch for changes in his particular behavior. If he starts out standing arm’s length apart then moves closer while focusing on the conversation, this is a sign of interest.

Signs of a Woman’s Interest

Many women, knowingly or unknowingly, show their interest in a man by moving a certain way or making gestures that indicate that their senses are heightened. When she tosses her hair, strokes her hair or moves it away from her face and exposes her bare shoulders, she’s showing a desire for attention. Other things she may do are lick her lips, apply fresh lipstick or slowly nibble on something she’s eating.

Signs of a Man’s Interest

Men tend to watch a woman’s gestures, looking for a sign they’re interested. If they feel confident they won’t be rejected, they may lift an eyebrow and let it fall, according to Tracey Cox in 18 Body Language Clues That Say He’s Interested, an article on ivillage.com.

Other signs to watch for include:

• His lips parting
• His nostrils flaring
• Trying to get the woman’s attention
• Stroking his tie or smoothing his lapel
• Messing up his hair or smoothing it back
• Raised eyebrows while listening
• Standing with hands on his hips
• Playing with his buttons
• Playing with his face while talking to the woman
• Leaning toward the woman
• Offering his coat or jacket

Although the physical signs aren’t foolproof, they may indicate the other person’s interest. Watch for eye contact, blinking, pupil dilation, how close the other person stands, preening and other body language gestures for a strong hint. If this is the first date, the best way to find out what the other person is thinking or feeling is to come right out and ask.