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February 28, 2010

Experts Give Advice On Entering The Online Dating World

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New to dating online? Or do you need some pointers on how to brush up your skill set? We asked the experts for some tips.

“It’s great when people put five or 10 pictures of themselves that depict things they love to do, pictures that communicate your personality. Writing a tome on your personality profile isn’t necessarily great. It’s about making it personal (with) adjectives, interests, descriptions and honesty.” — Bob Holden, EHarmony’s vice president of North American singles

“Keep profiles brief and specific. Leave the novel at home. Long, drawn-out profiles and sob stories don’t belong on an online dating site. Use a catchy screen name. For instance, I use PianoBaby and PaperbackWriter. It makes it easy for a man to approach me because they have something to say. Don’t put pictures of you and your pets or children. Don’t post party photos – a picture of a man and his buddy might confuse the person looking at the profile (who would wonder) who the right person is in the photo.” — Julie Spira, author of Cyber-DatingExpert.com and the book “The Perils of Cyber-Dating”

“You want your picture to be real. You want to be you. If you start on a date with a picture from 10 years ago and you’ve gained 10 pounds or if you have a lot less hair now, you’re starting on false assumptions. ” — Whitney Casey, Match.com’s relationship expert and author of the book “The Man Plan”

“You should always have one close-up to the face. I would recommend that people post three to five photographs on their profiles, but they could also run 50 or so through HotorNot.com (and let people vote) for which ones score the best.” — Mark Brooks, editor at Online-PersonalsWatch.com

“The more someone knows about you, the less they want to date you. If you write a massive essay, they’re going to find something to dislike about that person. If you don’t know something, everyone assumes you’re the same as them. Let everything else come out during the dates.” — Markus Frind, founder/CEO of PlentyofFish.com

“A lot of people fly through things really quickly. If you put a lot of general information in your profile, it’s hard to get a sense of who you are. Get a friend to help you write it because a lot of people are uncomfortable talking about themselves. Fundamentally, you should really be honest about who you are and what you’re looking for. That’s true anywhere you meet people.” — Greg Liberman, president and chief operating officer, Spark Networks, which owns JDate.com, BlackSingles.com, Spark.com, Kizmeet.com and other sites

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February 24, 2010

Five Photos That Actually Get Responses

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Dating site OkCupid conducted a sizable study to unearth what types of photos garner the most responses. And everything I thought was a turn-off is actually a turn-on, at least if you’re measuring turn-ons by quantity of messages and not quality, which the study did.

By looking at profiles for 18-32 year olds with only one photo — and removing the worst- and best-looking people — the study revealed these terrifying truths about what attracts men and women.

  • Duckfaces. We don’t want to encourage this, since we wished duckfaces out with the last decade, but now it’s scientifically proven that the duckface works for women. Men? Nope. Look away from the camera. No smiling.
  • Coy self-portraits. OkCupid calls it the “Myspace photo” You know it. Camera held above the head, and the face looks so thin and so sassy. Believe it or not, these things work. In fact, OkCupid was so shocked by the findings that it removed all photos that revealed cleavage from the equation, but the Myspace photo triumphed.
  • Shirtless photos for men. Is OkCupid creepin’ with guidettes? Guys (caveat: with great bodies) get more responses with shirts off than on. There is one silver six pack: the ab photo’s effectiveness decreases with age.
  • Cleavage shots. The cleavage shot — surprise — works, drawing in 49 percent more responses than other photos. What is news is that it works better for older women. Of course by older, I mean like 30, since the study only looked at 18-32 year olds. OkCupid hypothesizes that the uptick is because women show off their bodies less by their mid-20s, so those who do reap the awards. If an award is the type of guy who’d contact you for showing cleavage.
  • Show your face… or not. It doesn’t really matter. OkCupid thought it did, advising users to use pictures that show their faces, but its study found that responses remained the same whether you showed your face or not.

One glimmer of hope is that while posing with your pet or doing something interesting got the fewest responses, they also got the highest quality of responses, which was measured by whether or not a conversation started.

Are you shocked? Disgusted? Never dating again?

February 22, 2010

How To Make Long-Term Relationships

Most of the online daters prefer to meet other people through free dating sites. These days the free dating sites have come up with value added services for the members. Hence, they are most popular among the teenagers who are new to the world of online dating and are learning the art of dating through free dating sites. Even the adults are using these services for they are free of cost and provide nearly equal facilities as the paid services. But the matter of consideration is whether the free dating sites are able to find a person who can develop long-term relation with you.

For the mature as well as teenage users of free dating sites, it is easy to start relationship with someone that they meet on the websites. But it is difficult for most of them to retain the relationship. Often, the teenagers are prone to build and break relationship faster in contrast to people who are mature enough to understand about relationship and who know how to nurture them. however, there are few tricks with which you can build relationships on free dating sites that will last long

Speak the Truth

In whichever article regarding dating tips and dating advice you read, they will advice you to provide factual information about you; it enhances your credibility in the cyberspace. Many people using free dating sites fake their identity and try to fool others. You should remember that these days, every one is making a Google search to know about other people. If you are pretending to be someone else, it may not take much time to find out the truth about you. Moreover, if you are seriously interested for a long term relationship, it is important that other should love you for what they are. There is no harm in being honest. But care should be taken not to reveal about all of you unless you have interacted with the person for a long time and you have faith on them.

Great Communication Skill

If you want response for your messages and emails, learn the art of breaking the ice on free dating sites. Many people lacking this are fail to get someone perfect for them even if they have other great qualities. Even after starting conversation, there are few techniques of communicating with people. Prior to sending message, try to spend some time on reading the profiles and in your message, mentions about what they like. It will definitely create positive impression. While chatting online, don’t talk too much about yourself, others may not be interested in it. Choose a topic both of you are interested in so that it can last for long. These conversations and messages are foundation of long term relationships on free dating sites.

Candid Discussion about Expectations

For a relation to last long, it is important that you should choose people who really meet your criteria. If you are serious about a long term relationship and looking for someone who shares the same interest on the free dating sites, you have to start a discussion about what you want in your souls mate and what the other person’s expectations are.

These tips will definitely help you get your love and soul mate for a long term relationship. So get the free dating sites a go, and start your online dating adventure today.

February 13, 2010

The Flirting Signs

If you think that women don’t flirt, you are wrong. Some women do it for pleasure. Others do it from love, and some women do it, because they have a goal. Of course, we could say the same about men, too. There are people, who don’t stop flirting and to such an extent, that this turns out to be a way of living for them.

Of course the other people who are searching for the flirt must be always aware of this, since a great part of them could become their partners. But in order for this to happen, one should first learn how to know the signs the opposite gender is giving. Sometimes they are false, but in most cases they are a guaranty at least for a declared sympathy towards you, and why not for something more serious.

She is continuously smiling at you

If you notice that a girl lights up and starts smiling everytime she sees you. This means that she is definitely keen on you. Provided that she often grants you with wide, long and jolly smiles. This means that she definitely looks for a flirt with you. And in this case you should respond with the same. Return her smile, if she is of interest for you. She wants that you give her a sign.

The lips movement

Look after her lips movements. Many of the women flirt deliberately or not most often with her lips. If she knows, that you are looking at her and she starts allegedly instinctively: to play with a straw, to put her finger on them, to lick them, to imitate a kiss, to make them stiff, to put slowly and passionately lipstick or gloss. You could be sure, that she is flirting with you. What you should do is just to take the game, as you immediately answer her with a smile or a provocative look.

She copies your behavior

The younger girls often start using a man’s movements and grimaces, when they are keen on him. Sometimes they even try to imitate him. If she imitates your actions, your body movements, your gestures and mimics, which you use. This means that she definitely sympathizes you and she thinks, that this could be a way to get closer to you. You should try to behave just as if you are seeing nothing unusual. Continue your conversation in a slightly funny way and be natural.

She seeks you continuously with a look

If you sense when you both are in a room, that she continuously seeks for your look, as if she could not stop watching you. She looks fixedly at you and she seeks a contact. She winks at you while you talk and she looks at you in a provoking manner. She plays with her eyebrows by turning them upside. You could be sure that she is not only interested in you, but she is really head over ears for you. If you like her and if you want to continue your relations into this direction, don’t avoid her look. Answer her the same way.

She seems instinctively to put her breast forwards

Many women use this tricky weapon in order to attract men’s attention. They know very well, that this is one of their most powerful weapons and they don’t even hesitate to use it, since in 99% of the cases this guarantees their success. If while you are looking at her she starts instinctively putting her breast forwards or she bends in a way to make it visible to you. This means that she definitely has started using the heavy artillery and she wants a flirt with you. You should not start looking at her breasts, even though most of the men do it without even think about it. You still want to be different than the others and to surprise her with your behavior. This shall make her even more intrigued by you and could make her even more bolder in her communication with you.

She makes her body naked instinctively

Some girls use the slight nakedness of the body in order to attract men’s attention. This happens most commonly when they want to act fast and aggressively. She could lean towards you as if she is doing this very instinctively, and by doing this she could open her neckline. She could let one of the shoulder straps of her dress to fall down even without noticing this. She could toss aside her hair in a manner so that she could open her neck and her neckline for your look. She could cross her legs in front of them or slightly open them in order to make you look at her. In general, the variants are so many and all of them are enough spicy and challenging. You should not start to look to the naked part of her body, even if this could be a hard task. Smile at her slightly and show her with a look of your eyes, that you understand her sign.

She looks for a chance to touch you

Some women and young girls shorten the distance between you by trying to be closer than usual to you. Besides they use every single opportunity to touch you and to feel your skin and body. Such a touch could be touching your hand, hugging you when greeting you, tipping you on the shoulder etc. She touches herself, her hair, her clothes and the jewels she wears. Every one of these events is a sign that she definitely is looking for a closer contact with you and this is not by chance. Don’t draw back, show her that this is pleasant for you and this could be a way for you both to become something more than close friends.

Continuously searching for your attention

Always when you are at one and the same place she tries to attract your attention in any way. For example when you are together in a company, she pretends to be speaking to all, but she looks only at you. This is a sign that she sympathizes you or she even adores you for something you have achieved or you are able to do. This is a sign that all her attention is focused upon you. Don’t be afraid of the situation and smile, afterwards you could answer her, but in no case you should leave her words hang out in the air. Because she would feel very unpleasant if you don’t pay the necessary attention to her.

Always when you meet she starts first talking to you

She comes straight to you just when she sees you. She stops all other conversation started and immediately starts contacting you and talking to you. She always sits around you and tries to become a part of the discussions you are participating in. You should show her that her attention is very pleasant for you and you should continue talking to her.

She plays with the words used in the conversation

Many women try to attract the man in front of them by using ambiguous statements. They often do it also when they want to make the serious situation more funnier and they try also to insert a sexual joke. Usually this happens in the course of your conversation, she inserts a sexual context and turns the conversation in such a direction. You could be sure that she doesn’t make it by chance, she obviously has something in mind. Especially if she combines this with a more challenging behavior or seductive looks. You could be sure, that she wants you. Play her game following her rules and do not put spurs to the events. Be unclear, playful and original without going to a more “hard” wave. This is the way to keep her attention and you both could please yourself. Of course you should be ready for a faster development of things, too.

These are the ten most common love signs showing that a young girl or a women seeks contact with you and that this contact definitely should not be just a friendship. Look always for such signs and answer them. Even if there is nothing more than just a flirt. This could bring you pleasure and satisfaction, both to you and to the girl with whom you are playing. Besides you never know when you’ll get to the right person. Consider that the life is full of pleasant surprises and they are hiding everywhere.?

February 8, 2010

The Pros And Cons Of Dating Your Coworkers

Who do you turn to when you need advice? If a neutral sounding board is what you need, e-mail us! We are here to help you keep a level head and an open heart on life’s bumpy road to happiness.

Dating in high school and college is so easy. You may not think so while you are there, but believe us, having a select pool of candidates makes finding someone to date infinitely easier. Everyone is the same age and of the same mindset.

When college ends, the dating difficulty begins. You are no longer surrounded by hundreds of options. So where do you go to meet someone? Bars are the first choice, but it gets old and obnoxious after a while. Blind dates are not all they are cracked up to be. Which leaves Internet dating, and, well, you know how we feel about that.

So what about the tried-and-true office romance? Is it something to avoid like the plague, or is your future spouse sitting a few cubicles away?

Krystle thinks that work is a great place to meet someone. Granted, she doesn’t have a lot of experience dating in this setting.

She finds nothing wrong with dating someone at work as long as it is appropriate and you aren’t violating any HR rules. After all, it’s only natural to become interested in someone you see every day and have a good working relationship with. In fact, the way you work together may be a good indicator of how you would behave in a relationship.

If you don’t have a lot of opportunity to meet people outside of work, then work is as good a place as any. She would, however, advise you proceed with caution. Workplace romance should never interfere with one’s job. It should never be overly obvious that you are having a relationship with someone. It’s personal and should be kept that way.

Erin has a rule when it comes to office romance: It’s a no-no. After a relationship ended badly with a co-worker, Erin promised herself she would never date someone in her office again.

While in the relationship, you constantly have it on your mind that you don’t want anyone to find out. It becomes very difficult to focus on spreadsheets and e-mail when you are thinking about the other person or see them passing your cubicle. Forget about sitting in a conference room with windows. Have you ever tried to keep a straight face when your significant other keeps walking past with a smirk on their face?

If you continue dating after one or both of you move on to new jobs, it will be fine for you in the long run. But what happens when you break up while you are both working for the same company? You could end up like Erin, when she burst into tears every time her ex-boyfriend walked past or someone mentioned his name. It doesn’t look great to your boss when you suddenly cannot work on a project with that person.

Whether you believe it’s a good idea or a nightmare waiting to happen, we suggest that you proceed with caution. Do not carpool to work or constantly have lunch dates as you will only draw more attention to yourselves.

Keep your personal relationship separate from your work relationship as you would with someone you didn’t work with. Our feeling is that you will end up with whoever you should end up with in the long run, whether they are a co-worker or not!

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