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May 25, 2017

7 dating profile secrets

Filed under: attention, date, dating, interest, photo, profile, username — Tags: , , , , , , — admin @ 1:18 am

No matter what you’re doing today, your online dating profile is buzzing around the internet all by itself, meeting the seemingly random clicks of a million cyber singles.

It’s proven that getting interest online can be depressingly simple but the same style won’t work for finding a date with someone who really interests you. So how do you attract the right attention? It’s easy when you know how…

1. See your profile as part of a journey

First you need to get the right person onto your page with your username and photo. From there, sustain and build interest with more detail as your date reads on. Then end in a way that gets them to the point where they’ll do exactly what you want – date you! Make sure the whole profile flows together, despite rigid dating profile questions, and they’ll arrive there even quicker.

2. Pick a personal username

Your username should be short, descriptive and give good reason to continue reading. More personal usernames work well for dates when the dating profile reflects the personality that attracted attention initially. Depending on what dating site you are using, consider including location as part of it too, this means you’re more likely to attract someone in your area, making dating a lot easier.

3. Choose an intriguing photo

Hot profile pictures will make people take notice but a photo that is overtly sexy will put off many serious daters instantly. A natural photo with good lighting is the place to start and try to include other things in shot to capture attention, like paintings and animals. Make your date curious to look closer.

4. Write for your date, not for yourself

Think about language. If you’re a heterosexual man, don’t describe yourself in a way that would only appeal to other men. Instead copy the way women always write open and descriptive profiles. The same concept works for women too, be more explicit like men and say what you want – guys will respond to that.

5. Convince them you’re great

The way to convince someone that you’d be a great date and create an instant rapport is to write down in one sentence exactly what might interest people about you, in a fun and friendly way. Explain what makes you unique and engaging, what can you offer?

6. Pay attention to detail

Should you include your unusual hobbies? Definitely. A passion that you want a partner to share? Check and check. What about those odd sexual habits and the fact you have a toe missing? Leave this out. Detail will make or break you.

7. Explain what you want them to do next

It’s so simple, but if you want someone to do something after reading your profile, say what it is. Many singles are worried about time wasting with people who don’t want to date, so a direct invitation will help to stand out: ‘Let’s chat and we can grab a coffee.’ Easy, but it works.

May 23, 2017

10 Signs The Woman You’re Dating Is Crazy

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , — admin @ 3:16 am

By Nick Russo

Now I know this isn’t going to go over well with some women, especially, the crazy ones. I have always been a people watcher and thanks to Facebook and a lot of socializing I have seen relationships from all across the spectrum. For some reason, people like to tell me their private situations and scenarios. I don’t mind, often, I’ll try to send some helpful advice their way if I can figure something out. In fact, if you ever need some advice, shoot me a message on Facebook!

There are different levels of crazy but the extra crazy ones are going to be the most challenging in the dating department. You have to be able to recognize the signs of an extra crazy chick before you get too involved and end up in a nightmare relationship.

Here are ten ways to know that you’re dating a crazy chick:

1) She’s Crazier Than You In The Bedroom – Sure, you’ve had some experience in the bedroom and you know how to move the boat through the ocean but if/when she pulls out some moves or requests that go past your imagination, proceed with caution but enjoy yourself & take note.

2) The Resting Crazy Eyes – Kinda like a Huskie..the dog. They just look mean when you look at them, no matter what. Sure, they might be friendly but they’re not letting you know that at first glance. Just be aware of the crazy eyes because the eyes are window to their soul.

3) Her Appearance Is Seasonal – If she’s constantly making drastic changes in her appearance, take this information, remember it and run. Not to say all women who color their hair or dress wildly are crazy but too much from one extreme to the next is definitely a sign of potential instability.

4) If They’re Prettier Than Her They Must Be Easy – This sign of a superiority complex is a game changer. Recognize this. When you have to hesitate to even acknowledge a good looking woman’s existence because it will turn into a diatribe about how she must be easy to look or dress a certain way….get out of there. Nothing is worse than a shallow and judgmental partner.

5) She’s Admitted To Being A Good Stalker – The word “stalker” has kind of been abused over the past couple years because of social media but if a girl admits to being a little crazy and stalking someone…take note. This is not a healthy behavior because it caters to obsessiveness and there’s a difference between devotion and obsession. AND if someone ever admits to a little crazy…I’d bet there is a bunch of crazy hidden.

6) Her Place Is Either Too Messy Or Too Clean – If she’s a level 5 germ/neat freak then you must know what you’re getting into. There will be a lot of things that she will not allow in the relationship that involves hands and mouths. This can be a huge damper on intimacy. On the same note, if she’s a borderline reality TV show level hoarder then she has major attachment issues. Imagine if the house smells bad what the body smells like….no, thanks you.

7) All Of Her Ex’s Still Love Her – If you’ve been in a relationship with her and she’s still bringing up stories about her exes then she has not let go yet. Also, to think that her exes are still hung up on her is a bit narrow minded and you should start preparing to become an ex that she will think still loves her.

8) She Takes Arguments Way Over The Top – She’s a top notch drama queen over everything. She said she hates going to a certain restaurant the first time you two met and you didn’t remember so now she’s threatening to jump out of the moving car…this woman is crazy. Stay away. Notice when the fuse is short and the lighter is always ready because you don’t want to date a ticking time bomb.

9) She Calls And Texts Too Much – This goes back to the obsession vs devotion argument. It’s one thing to check in and say hi from time to time but if you’re going to be spending hours together later..there’s no need for the incessant, non-stop, never ending text messages. When the text message level is above your normal comfort zone, beware. That non stop communication turns into OCD.

10) She Criticizes Your Mother – It’s not her job to talk down to you about your Mother. She should have the utmost respect for her and when you see that she has the audacity to think that she is in some position to put down your mom…you have a major problem. Steer clear.

May 16, 2017

Online Dating Tips For The Impatient Dater

Filed under: date, dating, leave, meet, meeting, online, people — Tags: , , , , , , — admin @ 5:16 am

By Susan Baxter

Online dating is a good way to increase your chances of meeting the right person. However, if you put all your eggs in one basket and depend on Match.com or eHarmony.com to serve you the love of your life on a platter, then you could be waiting a very long time. You should think of online dating as an added bonus, a supplement to your social life that helps you get out there and meet people.

But finding the right person online can be tough; in my experience, the guys’ pictures were from two years prior–when they weighed less–and were taken in the perfect light to make them look better. Also, I came across a lot of liars who found it difficult to tell me their real ages, heights or marital statuses. I also sat through boring, weird conversations. Everyone says they have “a great sense of humor.” The problem is, sense of humor can vary big time! I’m very sarcastic, so practical jokes and light comedy don’t make me laugh–and dates can get annoyed if you don’t at least fake a laugh.

If you don’t want to get too discouraged with online dating, follow my tips to help speed up the process and get you closer to finding The One:

1. Don’t keep sending emails back and forth to “get to know” that person before meeting him or her. Schedule the first date/meeting right away. People can be totally different in person than they are on the computer, and you don’t want to be too disappointed!

2. Don’t make the first time you meet a long dinner date or outing. You do NOT want to be stuck with a weirdo for a long time.

3. Following tip #2, tell your date that you only have time for one or two drinks, and then leave (maybe you’re getting dinner with friends?). This will leave him or her wanting more. Guys, especially, fall for this; they like the chase!

4. Schedule at least two dates every time you go out. Why would you want to get all decked out every single time you meet someone for one or two drinks? After doing this over and over, you realize the amount effort you put in every time you have a first date. This way, you are already looking great when you meet the next person after you leave the first!

May 15, 2017

How to Crack the Code to Online Dating

Filed under: dating, online, people, profile, women — Tags: , , , , — admin @ 12:17 am

By ABC News

Is your online profile keeping you from attracting the right mate?

Amy Webb, the author of “Data, A Love Story: How I Gamed Online Dating to Meet My Match,” realized that her online profile was turning off potential cyber-suitors and made it her mission to get to the bottom of it.

Webb posed as a man online to find out where women were going wrong. On JDate.com, the popular website for Jewish singles, Webb said she interacted with almost 100 women, tracked how each portrayed themselves in the digital space and then analyzed the popular women’s profiles.

“I quickly realized that the popular women seemed to know something I didn’t; they were clearly attracting the sort of smart, attractive professionals who had been ignoring my profile,” Webb wrote in an essay published in the Wall Street Journal in January. “Popular profiles used aspirational language (like “I want to travel” or “a big ambition of mine is…”), kept descriptions short and generic and lied about various physical characteristics (though not the ones you think). Their style was easygoing, youthful and spontaneous. I’d never once referred to myself in writing as “fun” or as a “girl.” but it was easy to see that I had been far too stuffy and professional in my presenting myself.”

She also found that shorter profiles were better, pointing to 500 words as a good profile length.

Webb learned a lot, both as a woman and as her male alter-egos, and ultimately discovered how to optimize her own profile (She also found the man she married).

Here are her top three tips to make your profile stand out from the pack.

1. Be Honest With Yourself About What You Want

If you’re not honest with yourself both in what you’re looking for and on your profile, you’re doomed to failure, Webb warned. You have to make a list of what you want in a partner, she said, and this can be the bulk of the work. Her complete list consisted of 72 things, but that number can vary. From there, she narrowed it down to a top 10 list and came up with a scoring system to help evaluate and judge the people she met online and see if they met her criteria.

2. Make the First Move

Many women wait until someone reaches out to them, rather than making the first move, but that’s the opposite of what women should do, Webb said. Turn the conventional wisdom on its head. In online dating, women do well making the first move.

“That first email is saying something positive about what they think of you,” she said. “It’s saying, ‘I want to know more.’ Why wouldn’t a man like that? It also means that you’re searching to find someone who meshes with what you want and making a move on it. You’re looking for people who have attributes on your list.”

3. Be Patient!

In today’s digital world, people need to have patience when it comes to dating to meet Mr. and Ms. Right., Webb said, and take things slow.

“You can be on a dating site and interact with 12 different people in a week. You might decide that they are terrible and pointless really quickly. But the truth is that you would never go on 12 in-person dates in a week. You’d need to take some time to discover what you think about that person,” she said. “[Don’t] forget that making a connection takes time.”

May 12, 2017

The Dating Game for Seniors

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , — admin @ 6:16 am

By Liza Horvath

Many will remember “The Dating Game” television show, where three bachelors or bachelorettes were hidden from view while a prospective dater — a single man or woman — would ask them a series of questions. Based on the answers provided, the dater would choose one of the bachelors or bachelorettes for a date.

It was always fun to watch the faces of those involved when they first laid eyes on the person they chose. Sometimes they appeared very happy — other times not so much. Was that television show the precursor to the current show “The Bachelor?” Could be — minus the hot tub, of course!

Many seniors who find themselves in the dating pool after being married or otherwise committed for possibly decades will often decide that finding a new love is way too much trouble.

Things have changed a lot since dating in your 20s, but seniors should not resign themselves to sitting it out. There are millions of singles “of a certain age” who are looking for love. And if you can find someone who is compatible and fun, life is just better, right?

“The Dating Game” no longer exists, so how does a mature single person go about meeting potential dates? If one is found, what sort of things should you consider before wading into a relationship?

One of the best ways to find a new friend or partner is to be introduced by mutual friends. Friends who know you well and care about you will usually be helpful in finding you a good match.

Friends you may have lost touch with over the years can help, too. When a client, Gerry, became a widower after many decades of marriage, he looked up an old friend to say hello. As it turned out, the old friend had died but his wife, whom Gerry had met several times, was open to a new relationship and the two started seeing each other. After months of dating Gerry popped the question and got married again — at the age of 83!

When friends are not forthcoming with introductions, many seniors will give online dating a try. Many sites cater directly to seniors; AARP has a seven-day free trial for its online dating site, www.AARP.org.

Top 10 Senior Dating Sites, a site that performs evaluations on dating sites, shows that Match.com is the No. 1 dating site for seniors, followed by Zoosk.com, LoveAgain.com and OurTime.com. Most of the dating sites offer “behavioral matchmaking,” where you provide information about your likes, hobbies and what you are looking for in a mate so you can be connected to like-minded people. Are you wealthy? No problem! MillionaireMatch.com will open its dating site to you — that is, after you provide it with verifiable information that you are as wealthy as you claim to be.

The final word from the financial and estate planning viewpoint: Be clear on what you want and expect with regard to financial arrangements and be certain your new mate understands as well. If you get serious, document the understanding and be sure it is understood by everyone involved — your new mate, your children and their children. Then, once the paperwork is done … enjoy!

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